This is one of those funny ones in self reflection 

As we do objective things stuff or people more than we care to admit

Sometimes it's not seen or in sight unless it's a separate thing 

Or like projecting from this to another etc 

Sometimes we do it in a foundation manner like in a fact 

Or we objective in the past, future or present 

Even times in comparison like in I have this!!!  So why would I want that etc!

Just remember here 

If it has caused a reaction you in perceptive view are in agreement with it here we have to be involved in it to victitise as such in our own perspectives it has to be seen or heard from to exist so in other words we have seen a part in it to believe in it, then we are part of it even if it's a tiny tiny amount 

We still are in it a tiny bit to see it etc 

We have to or there's no recognition of it here 

And in this we objective 

We have to see it to validate it 

Then it has to exist 

So in this instance we see and have understood it enough to agree with it 

A lot of our self reflection is in conscious thought and not even noticed we just do this automatically as humans do 

Just we have this sense it has to be objective to exist another weird bit about being us